Learn to approach people from the side

What you are after as a seducer is the ability to move people in the direction you want them to go. But the game is perilous; the moment they suspect they are acting under your influence, they will become resentful.

Don’t be one of these Anti-Seducers

Anti-Seducers come in many shapes and kinds, but almost all of them share a single attribute, the source of their repellence: insecurity. We are all insecure, and we suffer for it. Yet we are able to surmount these feelings at times; a seductive engagement can bring us out of our usual selfabsorption, and to the... Continue Reading →

The Art of Charm

Sexuality is extremely disruptive. The insecurities and emotions it stirs up can often cut short a relationship that would otherwise be deeper and longer lasting. The Charmer's solution is to fulfill the aspects of sexuality that are so alluring and addictive—the focused attention, the boosted self-esteem, the pleasurable wooing, the understanding (real or illusory)—but subtract... Continue Reading →

Charlie Chaplin : The Natural Seducer

As a child growing up in England, Charlie Chaplin spent years in dire poverty, particularly after his mother was committed to an asylum. In his early teens, forced to work to live, he landed a job in vaudeville, eventually gaining some success as a comedian. But Chaplin was wildly ambitious, and so, in 1910, when... Continue Reading →

Top 10 cities to party in Europe

Whether you’re looking to cut loose for a weekend or planning a 2-week bender, these ten European cities have you covered. 10 -Amsterdam, Netherlands Amsterdam, one of students’ favorite places to visit in Europe, maintains a bold nightlife. On the weekends, bars stay open until 3 a.m., and dance clubs won’t shut down until 4 a.m.... Continue Reading →

Make Your Needs A Priority

"I want you to know that I'm really uncomfortable with that thing we talked about last week." Lars, an anxiety-filled executive, began his second session of counseling with this statement. Lars had come to see me on the encouragement of his wife. He reported being generally depressed and unhappy for as long as he could... Continue Reading →

What a charmer: George Clooney !

Prepare to go weak at the knees ladies, because George Clooney just got even more dreamy. You didn't think it was possible did you? Well it is and here's the evidence. The 53-year-old proved himself to be the best prom date ever - even 30-plus years since his actual high school dance - when he paid a... Continue Reading →

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