What you are after as a seducer is the ability to move people in the direction you want them to go. But the game is perilous; the moment they suspect they are acting under your influence, they will become resentful.
Anti-Seducers come in many shapes and kinds, but almost all of them share a single attribute, the source of their repellence: insecurity. We are all insecure, and we suffer for it. Yet we are able to surmount these feelings at times; a seductive engagement can bring us out of our usual selfabsorption, and to the... Continue Reading →
Sexuality is extremely disruptive. The insecurities and emotions it stirs up can often cut short a relationship that would otherwise be deeper and longer lasting. The Charmer's solution is to fulfill the aspects of sexuality that are so alluring and addictive—the focused attention, the boosted self-esteem, the pleasurable wooing, the understanding (real or illusory)—but subtract... Continue Reading →
There is a point in an interaction where a woman makes the choice between seeing you as a friend or as a possible romantic interest.You need to be able to spice things up at this point to avoid going down the friend route. Over time and without any pre-planning, I developed my other two characters,... Continue Reading →
Most Nice Guys initially come to counseling to deal with the way their life paradigm is affecting their intimate relationships. These relationship problems often overshadow the reality that they are equally dissatisfied with their job, career, or life direction in general.
What is that a woman actually looks for in a man ? What are the elements that make him the one she wants. 1 - Good Looking Lots of men think they need to be very good looking in order to get more women. That is because looks are a major consideration for men. Beautiful... Continue Reading →
Visualizing is in fact the secret. Don’t let the idea of visualizing freak you out. I’m not going to give you some far out 'spacey' methods like visualizing crystals while you burn incense. The techniques are easy and very powerful. Visualizing is necessary because that is what using your mind power is. If you know... Continue Reading →
Not everybody’s built for meeting women at bars and clubs. But when you see story after story about douchebags harassing women in the street and all the times when you shouldn’t approach women, trying meeting women anywhere else can feel like you’re tap-dancing through a minefield. There’s the understandable desire to not be a creeper on top of the anxiety that comes... Continue Reading →
Most men relate to the idea of trying to attract a woman without looking like you’re trying. Or trying to be cool without looking like you’re trying to be cool. Entire books and schools of dating advice have been built on this idea — pursuing a woman without actually letting her know that you’re interested... Continue Reading →
When undertaking any emotional shift or change in behavior, there’s going to be an initial “pain period.” The pain period typically happens in the beginning of forming any new habit. It’s the period of greatest resistance and discomfort and the period in which most people give up. Whether it’s bodybuilding, learning a new language or... Continue Reading →